Stop Waiting on “What If” — Start Moving Now

trulyflavius
Jun 14, 2025
2 min read

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We’ve all done it, Whispered the “what ifs” to ourselves like lullabies while life quietly passed us by.

What if I had more time? What if my husband changed? What if I had more support? What if people don’t like how I show up? What if I fail?

Sis — I’m here to tell you: flush that mess down the toilet.

For years, I stood in one spot—dreaming, doubting, and dancing with fear. I played it safe. I let “what if” convince me I wasn’t ready, good enough, or worthy of starting. I was waiting for permission. Waiting to grow taller, braver, richer, more accepted.

And then something happened. I wrote a book—Weeping Her Way to Wholeness. And I almost didn’t publish it.

I was scared. What if no one reads it? What if they laugh? What if I’m too honest?

But I hit publish anyway.

And the feedback I’ve received has been nothing short of miraculous. Women are healing, crying, reflecting — because I dared to move despite the what ifs.

Let me ask you something: What have you postponed because of fear? What miracle is waiting on the other side of your obedience?

Here's the truth:

You don’t need to have it all together to start.
You don’t need everyone’s approval to be anointed.
You don’t need a stage to serve with your story.

You just need to begin.

💥 A Gentle (or Not-So-Gentle) Push:

Use what you have. Start where you are. Say yes to your now.

Waiting for the perfect conditions is how dreams rot. Start in the storm. Start scared. Start shaky. But START.

🛠 Quick Work to Do This Week:

Write down your biggest “what if” lie and burn it (literally or metaphorically).
Make one bold move: publish the post, record the video, email the client, submit the proposal.
Speak this aloud daily: “I am not waiting on perfect. I am moving in purpose.”