About Petula
I looked confident on the outside.
But fear was running everything on the inside.
She’s leading. Showing up. Getting it done.
And still… second-guessing herself in rooms she already earned.
I’m Petula “Truly” Flavius.
And for years, I looked confident on the outside…
while fear quietly ran everything on the inside.
Fear told me to wait until I was ready.
Fear told me to stay humble… which really meant stay hidden.
Fear showed up dressed as responsibility, practicality,
and even faith.
And I believed it—for far too long.
Until I realized something:
Fear doesn’t get my voice.
Fear doesn’t get my yes.
Now I help high-performing women break their agreement with fear so they can speak up, show up, and be seen—without burning out.
Fear is showing up at work - and it’s costing more than you think.
What looks like confidence is often controlled fear—
and it’s impacting performance, engagement, and leadership effectiveness.
Petula “Truly” Flavius delivers keynotes and workshops that help high-performing women break their agreement with fear, use their voice, and show up fully—without burning out.
The result?
More confident leaders.
Stronger communication.
Higher engagement.
And teams that perform without fear driving their decisions.
Breaking Your Agreement With Fear
You don’t need to be ready - you need to be honest.
A practical framework to name fear, break its grip, and speak with clarity and courage anyway.
She Looks Strong But She’s Scared
What looks like confidence is often controlled fear.
Unpack the emotional cost of “holding it all together” and why high performers are quietly burning out.
Name It. Break It. Use Your Voice Anyway
Silence is costing more than fear ever will.
A practical, faith-rooted framework that helps women name their fear, break its grip, and use their voice with clarity and courage—anyway.
Sis, You’re Not Alone
The strong ones are struggling too - just silently.
A powerful, faith-rooted message that helps women feel seen, heard, and emotionally safe again.
Burnout Is a Signal, Not a Failure
Exhaustion isn’t weakness—it’s information.
Learn how fear, pressure, and overperformance are driving burnout—and how to reset without quitting everything.
Invite Petula to Speak
Fear doesnt't get their voice.
Fear doesn't get their yes.
Fear Doesn’t Get the Final Word
The message doesn’t end on stage. It continues beyond the moment.
THE BOOK THAT STARTED THE CONVERSATION
Weeping Her Way to Wholeness
For the woman who looks strong but is silently unraveling.
This is not just a book. It’s a mirror, a moment, and a way back to herself.
She looks strong. But she’s carrying fear.
She shows up. But she’s second-guessing every step.
She leads. But she’s still waiting to feel ready.
This is where healing begins.
This message doesn’t stay on pages. It shifts rooms, teams, and lives.
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Bullied to Bold
Reclaiming your voice and rewriting your story.
Because when fear is driving, performance suffers - in life and in leadership.